barely holding on - 3

[u-turn]

I am doing a bit of mind reading this morning - though I'm trying not to.

W was challenged on FB to list 3 things she is thankful for each day for 7 days. Pretty normal stuff.
1. kids....
2. a friend of hers....
3. second chances!

(this is the one that I am trying not to read into too much - was it directed at me? was it directed at her "new life"?)

these two words kept me awake last night - why the heck can't I detach from her and things like that.

She then challenged me to the same (she usually doesn't include me in anything like this).

Well - I wrote something (probably my 10th FB post in my life)
kept it neutral (family, peaceful sunday mornings, people that have challenged be to be more)- but I have a feeling she is trying to read my mind a little too. (the dreaded double mind reading)

She is acting nice today - asked if I wanted to go to the beach for a while today. Again - I don't think I am detaching.

Question for the masses:
Is it the opinion that I should act like I believe what she said even if I don't (about the A) - is this part of validation? Ignore, give it time, wait, have patience?

Thanks