Thanks Wet. I was really blindsided by this one. Regular Sat. afternoon, enjoying some good conversation when I hear the news about W's dating profile.

And you are right. I never thought of the pain of discovery from snooping as self-punishment.

Comms have ramped up a bit the past month after long periods of NC over the past five months. I had been taking this as a positive sign. Until my email to her about the window last week, she had been the one initiating contact mainly by text. I thought it was an opportune moment to initiate while having a valid reason and not coming across as pursuing.


M:36 W:34
T:9,M:4
Me,WAH:7/2011
My apology:12/2012
Her,WAW:01/2013
ILYBINILWY:4/2013
W's EA:5/2013
Sep:9/2013
2nd EA signs:03/2014