Hi Anders, yes I know the pain of seeing your W's dating profile. My first advice is simple - stop snooping! What you don't know cannot hurt you. Perhaps you are like me, I am weak and snoop as a form of self-punishment. I need to grow healthier and stop wanting to hurt myself. But I've stayed away from snooping for over a week, and so can you.
Second, I don't know your sitch but from my quick glance of your recent posts it seems you are having too much contact with your W. An hour long conversation, texting her about your interesting story of a window exploding, etc. I don't know but I think you could benefit from pulling back from her. Don't initiate contact with her, and see what happens. I know its painful, but see if pulling back helps. Good luck.
