You really need to draw some boundaries for your own sanity, to protect yourself. I know how it feels to know your H is with OW but when mine was he never tried to be physical with me just "friends" and was cake eating with family time and living his life with her.

Be the door not the doormat!!

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction