Just got a text from h saying that ow is staying at his place tonight, but hell make sure everything is sorted by 8.20 tomorrow morning so that myself and the boys don't cross her path when I drop them off, I was fairly short with my reply and he responded back that it wasn't planned, to please believe him, I responded back with thanks for your honesty ( sarcasm) and have a good night (more sarcasm which I think he missed because he responded back with going to bed I'm pretty knackered....
so this just confirms to me I am a doormat. tomorrow morning when I drop off the boys, I'm also dropping off the car seats and he can work out how to get them to daycare on Tuesday and Thursday. I'm sticking with having them on Mondays and Wednesdays, as that's a commitment I made to them, but other than that, he can whistle Dixie. I am nobody's plan b.