Met WAW in city yesterday with D for school clothes shopping. Was a great afternoon. We joked and laughed and had a lovely lunch together. She also complimented me on my physique :-)

Ofcourse we shouldn't believe anything they say but a few things interested me. She said she had hardly slept the night before worrying about IVA..... does this mean on her night without D she wasn't with OM? She then said she hadn't been on a night out (which she loves) for about a month? Does that mean she hasn't seen OM or has he stayed with her when I have D with me?

I know this is mind reading but it just got me thinking after talking to C the other week who thinks the OM may not be around.

Anyway, I kept our chats light and fun yesterday. No R talk at all. Looked my best as well. Was tough though. WAW looked stunning. Wanted to tell her but said nothing.

Just wondering what you guys think? Am I doing the right things? Detaching enough? Any help I'd appreciate.


M 35 W 31
D 10
Married 3 years
Together 11
Single since Nov 13
Moved out Dec 13
ILYBNILWY, 'I don't want to be a boring housewife, 'I don't fancy you any more'
OM confirmed Jun 14