Originally Posted By: Casey


I hope this makes progress possible; it seems that the WAW has to go experience the world and get burned a few times before they come to their senses. I agree with your post on Igit's thread, that sometimes they never do fall on their faces and we cannot be waiting around expecting them to come back after they fail; that if that is what we are thinking of then maybe we need to work on detachment some more.


It is not so much that they will fail as it is they might gain an understanding as to just how difficult things really can be. Sometimes when a W or H comes from a very sheltered M diving into the world by themselves can be a real wake up call. What they do with it is completely up to them.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16