She has such hate for me, filed a restraining order against me to avoid talking or answering questions. She and her new friends are robbing the contents of the home day by day and I cannot do anything about it. Any advice to soften a hardened heart. ? Everyone else says work on yourself and forget her completely. But my memories haunt me. The good ones over the years. The concern I have that she is not well that I want to make everything great again and have a new begining with her. This is beyond last resort territory. If you think the DB coaches can help my marriage be restored ill try that. Thanks