Hi pilot, sounds like you had a good day. I think you are handling yourself really well, and indeed your W sounds confused about what she wants. She has to go through her process I guess but no fun for you. Those of you DBers with kids have such a different situation from those of us without. You really have to consider maintaining that civil, agreeable relationship for the sake of the kids. On the one hand that is so difficult, and on the other I guess it provides an excuse to talk and spend time together. I mean, if you didn't have kids together you probably wouldn't have helped her move today...
I'm interested to hear how the day at the beach goes! Keep us posted DB buddy! Hugs, Lisa