Hi Maybell, yeah I see what you are saying. We LBS change our minds so the WAS could definitely change theirs as well. BD for me was around 6/15 and he moved out 6/30.
Also you are right about not playing games but to be honest I am in the fake it til you make it mode still. If I didn't 'play games' a bit then I would be showing up at his door in a trench coat and nothing else. Haha. Better that I be fake I think.
Of course I am doing my best to GAL and move on and enjoy life. But I do miss him. So when he contacts me I really want to answer!
Thanks for checking in with me. I hope you are having a good day! Hugs, Lisa