Hey Jacket,

Sorry things are rough for you right now. Regarding your email, I would NOT send out anything that is not 100% true regarding your thoughts and beliefs. Personally I would not send one period as it is no one else's business. But I can see why you may want to. I would not let him dictate the narrative of how things happened and why. If you cannot agree on content, then just agree not to send one. If he is NOT pushing for the D, why send out an email to everyone you know stating you are getting a D. That just puts more pressure and/or justification for him to move forward with it.

Glad you are GAL and hope it helps calm your mind a bit. Keep at it!!!


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16