H's MLC #3

[2BHappy]

So H and I had a great morning (wink wink) then as we were talking about our son and what his plans were today, I mentioned I would be out with my friends for dinner, H gave me a look that included a raised eyebrow and smirk, I said what is that look, H said I did not know you were going anywhere today...

I said yes we are going on our monthly outing. H responded with "oh" I only knew you were going to hair apt today"...

I wanted to continue with things like..."or you ok with this" "do you even care where I go" or "why do you care" "why do you need to know where Im going but I keep my mouth shut and as he walked out door for work I gave a cheery "have a great day"

H was use to me giving him a play by play as far in advance as possible of any upcoming plans I had. So this has been another 180 for me, I now only tell him IF it comes up, or if I doing something when he will be home.

But this felt like this could be like Im hiding something,,,,and I dont want H to feel like he can not trust me, especially IF he is trying to come back out of the tunnel.

So what are your thoughts,,should I go back to giving him a heads up on my plans? H does not go anywhere really but work and if he has plans he usually lets me know..and has continued to let me know,,,but I know there had to be a time when he was someplace else that he did not tell me about,,,,like with OW!!!!!