This is terrifying - I hope you understand

[Shakspr]

Just a quick note to maintain my own sanity. Dreams where your W is making accusations of all your worst traits and actions are a lie.

Attempted the love languages quiz from my W's POV - words of affirmation followed by a tie between Acts of Service and touch. All scores were close - seems my W needs a "Whole Lotta Love."

Something from DB coach Laurie - if (lack of) emotional connection has been cited as a reason for the D, don't be afraid to make a connection when the opportunity arises. My W filed, yet still appreciates those moments of laughter and togetherness when they arise. DON'T FEAR BACKLASH. If/when it comes, keep your cool, maintain laissez faire attitude, and plaster a smile on your face.

From Animal House: "Was it over when the German's bombed Pearl Harbor? NO!!! It's over when WE say it is!"