It takes a while to reach the point where you see the how this experience changes you in a good way. I promise, at some point, you will even be able to see the silver lining for your kids.
It's painful and it's rotten and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy...at the same time, you come out the other end as a new and improved version of YOU. You are developing skills that will make anything life throws at you seem piddly.
Cry the tears. Let it out. But, also allow yourself to get a bit excited for the good things ahead. There ARE good things ahead.
This experience forces you to deal with every issue you ever swept under the rug. If you face it with honesty and courage, you will realize you have been given an opportunity to change your life in ways you never would have otherwise...good ways.
Good things are around the corner. Smile and tell yourself, "Cheer up, I can handle it!"
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
