She's going to a baseball game tonight with her old work group (asked me if that was ok)
You DO realize this is a red flag already don't you? It was only a couple of weeks ago the following happened. She used her mother as the excuse to see OM that time, right?
Be WISE here Tarheel. This could be another cover for seeing the OM, sorry to say. So the whole work group is going without their spouses? IF other spouses are going, why not you? Or All women? To a baseball game?....
I say red flag again.
Here is what happened only a couple of weeks ago. She lied then and she could be lying now. Doesn't pass the smell test.
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'I'm leaving tonight to head down to Florida for a few much needed "mental health days"... I don't know why I procrastinate telling you these things.. Communication...One more of my crazy a** flaws...I've been dreading telling you for fear you'll be mad, or I'll be "in trouble". I told you I feel like you're my dad sometimes.
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Feeling so messed up today- found out W did not go with her mom to FL, but instead with OM.
W and I text last night after I found out (she wouldn't answer my calls). Long story short, she claims that there are 15 of them there and she is not 'with OM'. She went to clear her mind and think about things. She's been going to church, praying for an answer, reading things...I have no idea why she was there, what she's been doing, it's not what I think it is, but she's tired of having this same conversation.
