Hoju, I am in a very similar situation. I am sorry you are going through this. All I can really add to the conversation is that what you feel today is not what you will feel tomorrow. Do whatever you have to do to get both books, DB and DR. I have learned that I really have to think through what I am going to do or say before I do it. Making big changes is very hard to do, and any knee jerk reaction is probably going to be the old you, not the new you. Start doing 180s for yourself. Making changes for yourself will begin to build your self esteem and is the first step to becoming the person your W will want to be with.
Last edited by bdub; 08/23/1401:09 PM.
M42 W40 T17 M15 S13 S11 BD 7-14 A discovered 7-14 WAW moved out 10-3-14 D final 2-23-15
