I have not learned all of the abbreviations so I apologize. In a nutshell- H told me he was having an A on Mothers' Day. Moved in with OW. In his deceased parents home. (They were killed in a car accident in 2009) He's drinking again after being sober for several years- she drinks and parties. She's married.
Several years of him not coming home stopping at bars. Missed many dinners with me and our two children. H complained that he didn't feel wanted. His work day ended at 3. He wouldn't come home until 7 or 8. Then go to bed. Some weekends he would be out all night.
I told him I don't want a divorce. I want to work things out. H says, he's not sure.
Doesn't attempt to see our kids (18 and 14). Really has no contact with them at all. Says they mean the world to him.
On Sept. 11 will be 4 months. Money is tight so I haven't signed up for phone counseling. Will they help with making a payment plan?
