2Making sure I have enough sleep, quiet time and rest
3treating the children and I with respect and kind tones- not as obligations
4acting as if people are more important than things or money
5not making crude sexual comments
6behaving in ways that are appropriate responses to other people's emotions
7not making crude sexual gropes
8recognizing that I am your biggest ally instead of your worst nightmare or enemy.
9having positive conversation and emotional connection without expecting it to lead to sex most of the time
10 realize that I need emotional lubonding before sexual encounters
11 be responsible, trustworthy and safe
12 don't provoke kids or I to anger, fear, or shame
13 don't say someone or their feelings are crazy (their behavior may seem crAzy, reactions may seem extreme but DO NOT hint that others are stupid, crazy or overreacting.
14 take full responsibility for hurt you cause. Honestly I'm not sure what would help on this because I'm sorry now seems very shallow
Me:40 W:39 M:Dec 95 Split: Jul 14 W Filed: 9/16/14 Several Children (including adopted)
