Paz. Just wanted to check in. Haven't heard from you for a while. Hoping you're doing ok. Whatever is going on please know you've been a lot of support and comfort to those on this site and in your life.
You can catch up on my thread if you'd like. I've been posting more about what I'm going through, and referenced 'sexualcontrol.com' and it's free online pdf book 'the most personal addiction'. I really like it's common sense approach to sexual addiction, and the underlying issues of facing reality and uncomfortable emotions. I'd encourage you to check it out because it also talks a lot to the spouse of that person. I pray you'll have a chance to use in an R. If nothing else I hope it helps you understand your role in the situation. Namely that nothing is because of who you are, but that there are some common dynamics that can occur.
Anyway, hope to hear from you soon. Hang in.
PS- I've been curious about the user name change. Is there an explanation you can share? No big deal. Just nosy
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15