This morning has been chaotic, I spent three hours at the local hospital with one of the twins who ran into a wall, 4 stitches and heap of sedation later, he is finally asleep on the couch. had 5 ring h and let him know, he came to the hospital while the stitches were going in. he's still off to the races today, his priorities are definitely skewed, and I told him so, I don't care at this point it's not a 180, this is the same crap I have been dealing with for years, this 8a one of our children who ddoesn't just want his mum he wants his dad too, and while I know there are lots of single parent families out there, our boys have two parents that could be there for them, and this is one of those times. then h was all, ring me if you need me, WTH? so if I need you (like right now) I ring and you're 45 mins away and drinking, what good is going to be? Then he's going to leave, hugging me and twin, and giving me kisses on the top of my head and on the lips, again WTH???