Nitty,

I'm sorry you are here. A "magic pill" would be great because this stinks. 33 years together for you? And you think you know someone, right? You think after all that, they would never turn their back on you, but somehow you become the "reason" for them turning their backs?! Thanks for checking in. I'm sorry to see your h has recently filed. It is not easy. Stick around here, though. It is very helpful!