Living with WAW who will not leave

[Casey]

It is so easy to comment on others threads and see the issues with clarity that is so lacking when we are personally involved in our own situation.

W and I live pretty much separate lives at this point. We work opposite of each other so when she is here I am asleep and I am awake when she is gone. Son finally started school again so her and I have the mornings to ourselves now. So ironic what a difference a year can make. Last year, we were looking forward to school opening because we would be able to spend time alone with one another. This year, son being gone during the day just means that she can go back to sleep in his room during the day.

The money issue is bothering me a lot. I cannot get W to leave and I do not accept a M where there is an OM involved. However, W is passively-aggressive refusing to pay any bills and my patience is at an end. I don't want to cut off services because son lives here too. I have thought this out and I think the answer is I need to rent a different apartment and just one day move everything belonging to my son and I without telling W; this refusal to end the R with the OM or move out especially after she told me she wanted a separation, is testing my patience to the limits.

Ideas? Thoughts?