I get where you're coming from. It's the hand you've been dealt and you just have to play with the cards you've got. You know for certain your wife isn't moving so you move onto plan B. What can you do to be able to afford to build a life in your wife's province?


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014