Wife having emotional affair part 2

[3kids]

I don't know how to think about this. Me and the wife just meet with the realtor about the short sale on the house. Sounds like a great plan for us and we might walk away from it with nothing lost, except for some bad credit. Witch is great news. There are some problems. The wife doesn't have to move. Witch is great for her since she is starting school. Less worry, less stress. And she isn't forced into moving in with OM or me. One problem is, did I just prolong this misery for myself. Second problem is did I give them more time to live in there fantasy world.

The bright side is that at least I have a couple more months of living close to my kids. Easier for them and school. I give her more time and space. I give the OM more time to show the real person that he is(witch he is already doing from what she told me last night, by pressuring her). I give myself time to grow. More time to GAL. More time to improve my relationship skills. And last but not least more time for her to see the great guy I am. Witch she knows I am by her comments and doesn't believe one person can change that fast. Plus it makes her happy and that brings me joy.

So the positives out way the negatives. Plus my weekend without the kids I get to take the oldest to a baseball game tonight with my friends. And tomorrow I get to go to one of my friends forty birthday party. With paintball in the morning and lake side the rest of the day. Where the wife and kids might show up at. So maybe I'll get to see my kids on Saturday also.

Good day! Bring on the patience patience patience!

P.S. Can anyone name some really great relationship books?