I'm sorry, I didn't mean for that to be ouch! I just honestly want to know how people can get past that. I had a bunch of posters before tell me not to settle for being plan B and reconciling that with the notion of letting them roam is confusing. I see what you are saying about looking for the upside.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final
