I wish that were true Barry. Until, or maybe I should say IF our acreage sells, we are in limbo. There's not really any point in even looking at new homes over there until we at least have some interest. Then there is the issue of not having the money to pay for our old place, rent a new place in her area so I can be with the kids now that school is almost ready to go again as well as give her the support money.

I can't say I was surprised she wouldn't agree to move back. I was blown away though by just how single minded she is about her own happiness. It seems her happiness is all that counts. I told her I want her to be happy however we're still in a reality that says our life is in my province.

My D7 called me late last night and was crying. She wanted to come home and missed me. I don't know how my W can see that happening and be unwilling to do anything about it. I also don't know how she can be happy and see our kids going through what they are.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS