If the kids looked him in the eye and said "What you are doing is wrong and hurtful" he would just say that they don't "really" feel that way."

Matt that pretty much happened word for word with ss15.

I remembered something else from that night. This one is just funny. After BD he said our whole marriage was a lie because I once saved him from drowning in the shower when he was drunk. He thought that was a pivotal moment in our relationship and was apparently devastated to find out I did not feel the same.

NOW. . Our whole marriage is a lie because. ..H had a testicular biopsy a few months before we met. Our first night together was the first time he was able to get aroused since the procedure. He thought that meant we had a special bon but now knows it was just biology.

Does anyone else find thay laughably ridiculous.?

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15