Yeah, that's basically my whole plan. I think she trusts I won't get into an EA again. She hasn't forgiven me, but she knows I won't. She's still wary of my new habits in housekeeping

My gifts will need to be subtle as to not appear too pathetic or like I'm trying to buy her forgiveness. I'm simply trying to get that spark going.

My new thread is now started: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2481723#Post2481723

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.