Well, a lot has happened since my last posting. My W's mother has been coming along with her for the exchanges with the kids. It prevented us from talking last week but this week we sat down and talked anyway while her mother sat in the car with our kids.

I did offer her the option of moving back to my province, giving her enough money to get her own very nice place and then I would keep our house. She refuses to leave her province even though our place has had zero interest and selling it may mean letting it go for almost nothing. She said she's very happy where she is and doesn't want to give that up. I told her I want her to be happy however we are still tied to our life we made back home. It does not seem to matter.

So, things once again look less than great. I am VERY thankful that she at least is co-parenting with me and sharing time with our kids equally. I can't fathom that she is willing to have us go into bankruptcy so that she can be happy. Perhaps, given more time to think, she may change her mind. I guess we'll see.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS