Interesting perspective re: H dating from my very good friend today.

I told her my anxiety and she said "Why would you object? I can't see how you could lose."

She pointed out the grass is NEVER greener and H as he is isn't the most appealing prospect out there for any woman. He might actually get a date but it won't play out in anything like a good way. So I should not object.

Well, when you put it that way...

I'm so fortunate to get so much good advice.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.