Oh I missed something. ..

At the end of the conversation (if you can call it that) h said "why won't I just let him go"""

Is admitting that his actions hurt me mean that I am holding on?

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15