So I never posted how very unDB like I was when he said that Noone was in pain. First I listed who was in pain. He denied each of the kids and ignored me. Then I said the dogs were hurting which he laughed at. Then I went momentarily crazy and said I wanted mlc dog when he leaves. He goes for 48 hours without seeing and taking care of the dog and barely pays attention to him when he is here. This is a dog who loves cuddling. I really worry for him alone with h. H said that mlc dog goes when he goes and I have no idea how much they bonded on the 1x they went camping. Ridiculous.
I even offered to buy mlc dog from him. H said that made him lose any respect he had left for me ???

Like I said I was clearly crazy to continue engaging.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15