Another issue - She has a home business that requires her to pay a monthly fee (About $100) to maintain her position in the "network". I moved my paycheck to a separate bank account and she's upset that she's missing her commission because her fee was not paid. She never told me when it was coming out or how much, just expected me to pay it. I give her cash to support her and our children in her new place and that's my plan each month for the time being (yes, I have started asking for receipts). I pay all our other bills and her only income is this business. She used her pay last month to buy a cruise, that she never went on and could only get a minimal refund (I think she's in MLC to some degree and believes I'm the problem). Anyway, she's trying to blame me for this and wants me to pay her what her commission would be. Instead I have offered to help reduce her expenses other ways that are directly related to supporting children. I feel the monthly amount is a boundary and I don't want that violated. She used to be able to take our debit card and spend basically what she wanted and I'm the one who pays the bills and works the checkbook magic. Anyway, she has no job besides the commission. I'm wondering how others support a WAW that takes most of the children (I sill have our most difficult teenager at "the old house")?
Me:40 W:39 M:Dec 95 Split: Jul 14 W Filed: 9/16/14 Several Children (including adopted)
