Can you tell me why

[dawgy]

Anyone care to weigh in their thoughts on why my W has become sooo hostile towards me . I have several theories but that would be mind reading right ? I know im supposed to pretend i dont care but it is really bothering me . For the first several months after i found out about the affair she was kind and considerate and was very supportive even though she was ripping my heart out . Then progressively shes gotten shorter more distant and sarcastic . just down right I hate you kind of demeanor . I did nothing different except early on when she was being kind i was clingy , needy and pleading to her . Ive employed detachment and GAL and now shes seems to totally dislike me . What is threasoning behind this . She told me she wanted to leave several weeks ago . I told her I didnt want her too . She said she was going to and dint want me to let the cat out of the bag about her affair . I told her I couldnt do that , lying for her to save my marriage was one thing but to lie so she could leave was not going to happen . Do you suppose this is why she seems to dislike me so much .