So I let the emotion pass about this "surprise" baby BS and want to say, sex causes babies, practicing responsible birth control can prevent approx 98% of pregnancies. The only thing that's 100% (non-surgical) is abstinence.

Birth control is not just the woman's responsibility. If a man doesn't want to have another baby there are ways to make that happen.

So don't take any more responsibility for their lack of knowledge about the human reproductive system, or birth control or sex.

Asking that question of me more than once would be a deal breaker, I think.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss