Thanks for the replies. Today is the first day I have actually felt dread that it is going to be over. The appraisal for the house should come in today and I need some help on how to proceed.

If the house value comes in high then she is going to want to put the house up for sale immediately, granted it will take time to sell because of the price so I guess that works in my favor.

If the value comes in lower then there are either two things that are going to happen. 1, she moves back in. 2, she separates until a later date.

I know she is going to contact me today to want to meet, I can't do tonight thank God because I am going to a play. When we meet up what exactly do I say given the two options above? I don't want to sell the house immediately as I feel this process needs more time.

Completely lost, thanks again for the help

Me 34
W 30
T 13
M 8
BD 7/27/14
EA Confirmed 8/6/14
S 8/2/14
D Imminent

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