Aw, Matt. Your Ds seem very grounded and loving. As JG says, it's a testament to your love and devotion to them. You sound like a great dad and keep being that rock for your girls. We just don't know what the future holds do we? And the reality is that we never did. Isn't that weird when you really think about it.
My older 2 say they would love for me to marry someone who is good and really cares about them. Gut freaking buster. They know their dad loves them- he's just strange. My D9 always says (and I couldn't help but chuckle) that," mommy, no maītre woman would ever date Daddy." I just tell her that her dad loves them a d is going they something. They no longer ask if he will get better. When they did, I just said that I didn't know. It's the same with your stbx. You don't know what she evolve into.
Have a great day of work! Focus on being the best man and dad you can be. You do have some incredibly insightful, helpful posts to others.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer