Thank you!!I didn't see your post when I wrote this Yes,true. 7 years ago this too happened and when I was feeling "free" he came back....too soon,even though we'd been apart 8 mos. Almost the same time now. But I know now we weren't ready. Nor are we now!! It would be a lot different now and don't even think I can do it again. I guess I've grown too!! I was so desperate last time and I see it different now.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
I guess I've grown too!! 
