2nd time around part 3

[NotAgainPlease]

Its been a while since I posted. H seems to want to be civil no matter what. A good thing. We went about 3 weeks getting along great the the sh*t hit the fan and we had an ugly day of fighting where I got the usual kind words like he hated me and never wanted to speak to me again. Then a few hours later he wanted to get along....I have been very stand offish since. Communication very short and about kids only....I'm really starting to not care about any of this bs any more.
We still haven't done anything about the divorce. During our fight he was going to leave town and tell the attorney just to stop. He later said he was just leaving because he was mad.
We have a court date on Aug 3...we'll see.
I also asked if he still was with his gf he said she's not his gf...hmmm I said you're not in love with her? I thought she was your soul mate and love of your life? H said yes I like her...really like her??? He said she live 3 hours away we don't see each other very often. She visits sometimes like 1x a month..
I'm not sure why he has been so nice last few weeks?? Although their relationship has always been this way. I guarantee she feels different..
I am at the point now I just want to get along for the kids..I don't see us getting back together this time...