GB I stole a$$hat from you! It was the absolute best word I can think of to describe him.

Mighty- you are right. Thinking that this is the real him and that he may very well never go back makes it MUCH easier to detach.

2bhappy- I find it funny/childish/ridiculous that to this day h had not admitted relationship with OW. Ss15 and I both at separate times saw texts filled with I love yous and very explicit sexuAL details. She admits that he spends every tues and Thurs night with her. But according to him they are just friends.

BK and Matt the financial situation is very frustrating. L said that as long as he is still living here we are considered 100% married and therefore equally responsible for debt. If it doesn't come from him it has to come from me. AND she said there is nothing I can do as far as setting a financial agreement as long as he still lives here. He now says he will leave as soon as back rent is caught up. We shall see.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15