Hey Matt. We lI've thay song. S went against my musical wishes and is a true top 40 kid.

Your d14 reminds me a lot of my ss15 (16 in a week so scary!). He is very perceptive and picks up on a lot that is unsaid. Your w may very well be probing your d but d can pick up on your pain whether you verbalize it or not.

Ss15 said something like JG wants to fix things so we can all be a family but dad is so different now. I just don't know if it is meant to be. He said that to his mom who told me.

I think in a way he was letting me off the hook or acknowledging that he knew things were beyond my control. Your d14 is processing this in her way and making sense of what she sees. Sounds like she just wants her dad to be happy. It is a testament to the relationship you have built with het.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15