Chin up igit. Yea, you did get sucked into an argument, but it happens. We all have snarky statements just waiting on our tongues to lash out. Sometimes you just have to bite your tongue a little harder!!
I have learned that R talks so close to conflict are never going to go well for you. I know it 'feels' like you are connecting when you calm down and talk and you probably want to take advantage of the time, but best course is to STFU.
On the bright side, you are still in the game. This one shot did not sink you. Maybe a little backslide, but heck, it beats a stalemate!
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16