BTW Sam, the one book that totally helped me start to change things with my D is Parenting Without Power Struggles. It's like a DB companion in that it breaks down a lot of what we learn here, forces you to examine your assumptions and attitudes, and teaches you to reframe your expectations so you can interact more lovingly and successfully with your kids. When I think about it, it would make a great piecing handbook.
Good luck with your D. I always say that God knew what he was doing when he gave me just one girl.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15