He ended up calling me and asking me to come out side and talk. He said he didn't want to leave things on that note. The first thing he said was I am sorry I love you and I am only worried about you and the boys. I haven't thought about her at all and haven't given a [censored] to worry about her or her phone number. I went theough and deleted her and anything that had to do with Her if it wasn't already.
We had a really nice long talk about everything. He agreed to writing a no contact letter to the boss, boss's wife and the daughter. I told him it is a NON-NEGOTIABLE for me because he said he planned on telling the boss in person. I said how do I know you will say what you do? I feel more comfortable it being in a letter I know is sent and received.
I told him him talking to her, her family, or anything to do with them is mom negotiable for me and to just prepare for a divorce at that point.
