He apologized a few minutes later and said he deleted her off everything he said 'I don't think about her I didn't even think about her number still being in my phone'. I just said I really can't even think of moving forward with any part of her in your life. It's not fair to me or the boys. I shouldn't have to tell you what to do. You should do it because it's a step towards what YOU want.
BINGO.. You are GOOD T.... Fantastic job again...
I shouldn't have to tell you what to do. You should do it because it's a step towards what YOU want
You should be teaching US things T.. You nailed the perfect response again. Very good....
He is LYING to you. We know that he knows that number was still in there T. I would be cautious. RED FLAG written all over what you found. He still may have a thing for her. Remember SHE dumped him.
Stay observant. He has lied before and he could be lying again. He knows he can't tell you his deep inner feelings for her if he has them. He may just not want to be alone... Some people hate being alone and would rather be with someone even if they don't really deep down want them, than be with nobody. Has he ever shown that he can live without a woman in his life? HHHMMMMM????? Think about that.
Keep up the good work. You should be the one giving advice on here. You are proving to be what I call a "natural".. You GET it. You really do.
This is exactly why I keep hoping you stay on the path you are on. You are handling this in a textbook fashion. It isn't up to you to prove anything. HE is the one who had the affair and crushed your spirit to the point of no return.
Keep up the good work. Maybe this was God's way of showing you something about him.... He may get rid of her number, but it doesn't mean he can't memorize it....
