1 step forward, 1000 steps back - part 5

[mdu]

Interestingly, I do feel like I've taken a somewhat hard approach with H at various times throughout this whole ordeal. When I first discovered the A I made him call and tell his family (his parents and his eldest son). Of course I had him call the OW and end it, although he insisted on doing that privately which I regret. I initiated him leaving the house during both our first separation and this current one because I could not tolerate his moodiness, lack of commitment to working on the M and obvious pining for OW. So, if it's in my face and I can and will take a stand.

But this current sitch with OW in the office and I don't know what's *really* going on is so tough. I feel like perhaps I am being taken advantage of and should take a stand but I just don't know. I kind of wish I had better intel than just joint CC and his phone records --- both of which he knows I can access.