DB, that's a nice letter and I hope you feel everything that's in it.

Still don't send it. It's the sort of thing you might be able to send someday if you two are ever in personal communication. After you've established a little post-affair history together. If you sent it now it would sound like more of the same.

How are you feeling after checking in with others? Do you sense a difference in yourself after connecting with other people, even if they didn't connect back?

The generosity of spirit is the point.

Hope you're well.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.