Haven't had a chance to read it all yet, but be patient and don't do much to help her speed things along. Be patient.

Start working on you. Do some 180s on the things about you that bug her.

Read Divorce Remedy!!!

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.