Thank you again, I appreciate all of the sound advice. I was in 2 serious relationships prior to her. Am I comfortable being by myself, yes, by myself with these thoughts, no. I have moved in with a great friend (weird, he is my best friend and he actually married someone she went to high school with). They are tremendously positive people, and she has even tried to find out where my W is at. Again, I made mistakes in my marriage, but, I do love this woman.
I miss my daughters the most. There is no set visitation schedule. She lets me come and see them/take them whenever I want. When she is not in this mind state, she really is an amazing wife, it just took me a while to get my act together.
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GOT IT! No more sleeping with her. Even though I have needs, I will not go to her for them. Should I start seeing other people or just focus only on myself. The last time we separated, I actually took the kids and moved out, she was in that bad of a spot emotionally.
All I know, is that if we can somehow get this figured out, and R, I will never do another thing to let this woman go.
So, what should I refer to this as, that she is a WS or WAS?
M-32 W-29 3D-12, 10, 8 Bomb Dropped 28 Jul 2014 She started dating 4 Aug 2014
