She has been in a much better mood the past few days. I remain cautious and patient. She wears her wedding ring some days some days she does not. I say nothing. I've looked at several houses in our city and having trouble locating one you know what they say if you don't need to buy house it's easier to find one. I make sure every night when they go to bed that I have places to go things to do. I use my lunch time at work to go buy new clothes. The weekends we don't have my older son with us I stay gone doing different things. I ask her nothing and she asks me almost everything. My problem is with the GAL and 180s is that when I get home and she wants to chat she asked me where I went if I bought anything and so on. Inside I get so excited that she's interested that I have verbal diarrhea and I say too much. She is being nicer because we're moving forward with things I'm sure and she feels a sense of relief and sees the end. So I'm asking the vets here at what point does she possibly get sad at me not being around. She wants to be best friends. We have a small child together we get along great other than this divorce thing and the other issue that we had that we talked about in therapy. Which is not a reason to divorce but I understand she's made up her mind and she's a W a W. The way our child schedule is set up after I move is that I have him on the weekend and then on Tuesday through Thursday. This alternates between both of us. The only time I will actually pick him up from her or take him to her will be Sunday evening the rest of the time I drop him at day care and pick him up at day care. I'm trying not to think negative and make negative things happen. However the reality is this is happening and I feel like I'm putting my head in the sand by being positive and thinking that she will eventually snap out of it. I am in this marathon I've been through the ups and the downs I'm not taking medication but have dealt with the feelings as they come. I'm an open book for any comments /suggestions.
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.
